Is Oral Sex A Sin ?

My purpose is not to defend the act, it's between the individuals. My major point is, it's not my business anyway. What you and your spouse do privately, is between the two of you. We may not like it personally, but it is not a sin. In the context that some people view it, of course it is wrong. Scripture teaches us it is better to marry than to burn. Few people are choosing abstinence over fornication. What happens if something happens to your mate, before you reach sexual maturity? What if your mate becomes disabled or sick? All oral stimulation isn't motivated by pornography. Some men and women don't like doing it, but they don't mind having it done. That would be considered as a perversion. It's the spirit in which it occurs. In our carnal minds we make oral sex, obscene and nasty.
This is a prime example of us making judgement. It's easy to harp on another persons actions, if you don't like to do it yourself. In the past a persons livelihood, disqualified them from the kingdom according to man. Remember how they avoided the tanner Simon, simply because they didn't like the smell. I don't discount your teachings, they are relevant. If these actions are motivated by perversion. For those in another situation, they may need a word of consolation. Being saved doesn't make you frigid. It only conditions you to take your fleshly desires under control. If you want to go deeper in the bible. It would be better not to have a mate at all.
1 Corinthians 7
1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman
No one is trying to do that, except the Catholic preists. As we can see, they haven't done too good. We often try to operate as though we were perfect, that's not the case. God has made provisions for his children in every situation. He knew in spite of your best intentions, you would fall short. Sodomy in the bible didn't have the same versatile meaning as it does in society now. Because you don't approve of it personally, doesn't make it a sin.